From Leil Lowndes, 2003. How to talk to anybody
Create hooks to remember it
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Write it down |
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Tombstone Gem
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Decide whom to follow up with after the party |
From Leil Lowndes, 2003. How to talk to anybody
Create hooks to remember it
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Write it down |
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Tombstone Gem
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Decide whom to follow up with after the party |
(Harvey, et al., 2016)
(Lowndes, How to Talk to Anyone)
We’re more likely to repeat actions that others like, than to respond to criticism. If you want someone to change, catch them doing things right.
Setting boundaries is an important element to deciding how we react to people. (Alasko, Say This, Not That) Building a healthy boundary system yields the following positive results:
It’s always the best policy to speak the truth,
unless of course you are an exceptionally good liar
Jerome K Jerome
Robert Feldman at the University of Massachusetts studied 121 couples and found that >62% of participants told 2-3 lies per 10 minutes and James Patterson wrote in ‘the day America told the truth’ found 91% of Americans lied regularly at home and at work.